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Channel 7-29 with Barb & Stan Arnelien. Photo by Pam in the dingy. |
(Pam’s Christmas
letter in BLACK) Dear Friends and
Relatives, It has been two years
since my cancer. In '98, I was in the hospital wondering if I would be home
for Christmas. Steve & Trudy serenaded me in my room with such beautiful
harmony on the guitar, that the nurses opened the transmitter from my room
and "broadcast" it into their nurses' station. I'll never forget
it! Nor all of your prayers for me. (Stan’s
Sailing notes in BLUE) Have you
ever wondered how they get those pictures of the sail boat in the middle of
the ocean, crashing into huge waves, the hull blocked on the foaming crest of
a 20-foot square wave?
That’s the First Mate’s job...get the picture from a
dingy. Here Pam’s in training for that fateful day when we’re
halfway across the North Atlantic in a gale. |
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Have you ever stopped
to listen to the words of the Christmas Carols? They tell the whole story of
Jesus' birth. Are you finding a way to make the story vibrant and real this
year? Try this. Trudy and Steve are
expecting our first grandchild in February. Christin and Josh are expecting
our second grandchild in June. When Mary, the Blessed Mother, went to visit
Elizabeth, the mother of John the Baptist, they were both with child about 6
months apart. No, this
picture of Pam was not taken at the docks by tilting the camera. Our last day
sailing home provided ideal weather—about 15 knots off the starboard
beam. And since the Western shoreline of Lake Huron was only a couple miles
off our starboard, the fetch and waves were small. The boat hit 9 knots a
couple of times. |
Sailing !
Rockin' n rolling Southbound in lake Huron, 8-10. |
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Huron
crossing Harrisville to Tobermory, 6-26, 3:30 AM. |
When Christin and Josh
come from Norfolk to visit us, we are going to get a real life picture of the
scene between Mary and Elizabeth. I am going to drink it in as if I am
getting a glimpse into history near the time of Jesus' real birth when the
two blessed relatives met carrying such precious, holy babies in their wombs. We decided
to head for Tobermory at 5:30 pm on the 25th. We had a lousy day
motor-sailing in light winds North along the Michigan coast of Lake Huron.
Dull! Then the wind picked up out of the South and the forecast predicted
steady 10k winds all night long—perfect for a reach across the Lake.
So, instead of docking at Harrisville, we turned right 90 degrees. I took the
first watch and kept the boat speed down to 4-4.5 knots. I didn’t want
to arrive in the dark on the rocky coast and narrow passages approaching
Tobermory. During Pam’s watch, she had so much fun with me out of the
way, that she had the boat up to 6-6.5 knot watching the moon rise like a
flaming torch. SLOW down Pam. Rocks ahead. |
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Josh and Steve, the
husbands, are also getting a real life feeling of what it must have been like
to be Joseph, the earthly father of our Lord, as they take responsibility for
the protection and care of their wives and the children they bear. What an
experience it will be for our whole family to be a part of these joyous
occasions--births and Christmas--and realize that our God became a baby in
this same glorious way in the womb of Mary. Two seasons
ago we dragged anchor in a 15k breeze late one night; I had set the anchors
wrong. So this was a good exercise. Bigger boat. Stronger breeze (gale
actually). And one anchor held us well. You can see the line. Amazing! |
St. Joseph
Island, Ontario. Great anchorage in 40 Kn blow, 8-3 |
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Detroit
River 7-16. Pam's brother Tom and dad, Bill Turck. |
Of course, April will
be the perfect Aunt with her Montessori training. She is quite content with
the single life and has fixed up one end of the house as an apartment. By
day, she works fulltime at Shepherd Montessori in Ann Arbor, and by night she
attends Madonna University and doing well in pursuit of her Bachelor's
Degree. I’m
glad to report that we returned Bill and Tommy to shore without having to
call a towboat. The year before we took my elderly aunt and uncle for a ride
down the Detroit River on a day with no wind, and the engine quit on us. Had
to get towed back. That’s the day when we discovered that the U.S.
Coast Guard’s radio was waiting for vacuum tubes from China. |
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Stan and I still work
in our respective jobs. I find great fulfillment in mine as a middle school
public school teacher (with sex-ed., drug-abuse prevention, and career
awareness). Stan still works at Sandy Corp. as a creative director producing
communication programs for corporations. He finds fulfillment in his avocation
as an independent producer of documentaries and as a screenwriter. Ah, the
Thames shakedown cruise. The lake level was so low, logs blocked the normal
entrance to the Thames River. Canada, in her wisdom, turned off the lower
range light so you’d know there was something wrong. Brilliant! |
Shakedown
to Thames River, 6-9. |
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Approaching
our goal, the Straits of Mackinac and the Mackinac Bridge. |
The documentary
he’s working on now is that of a black minister of a Detroit area
Pentecostal church, who is leading his wife, 3 sons, their wives and
grandchildren, and 65 members of the church he founded into the Roman
Catholic Church. After seven months of catechism training they will be
confirmed during the Easter Vigil Mass 2001. We left
Mackinac Island in a early morning rain, but with clear skies predicted later
on. Approaching the Big Mac bridge was the highlight of our trip. And the
weather was good enough that we could sail (no motor) and set up the camera
on a mini-tripod for pictures. |
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Stan and his crew (me
included) have been able to document the entire process for the past year.
Stan recently purchased a desktop video editing system and will begin editing
as soon as the script is complete. It’s been great to be part of this
beautiful move of God. Sometimes it
helps to have long arms. We took a bunch of these hoping that one would be
aimed right. |
Passing
under Big Mac at 9:30 AM, Sept. 6, 2000. |
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Replaced
engine belts, Harrisville, MI, 8-8. |
We sailed through rain
squalls, and ducked into safe harbor during severe thunderstorms where we
were eventually hit by lightening. Zap! Insurance paid for all new
electronics which we now have to install. But we had God's protection and
mercy during the breakdowns and repairs, high winds and waves. We also had
many glorious days and nights experiencing the beauty of God's creation,
delighting in the marvelous wonder of it all.
The storms kept rolling in. In Port Austin, lightening
hits. We watched
the storm come and go on radar that helped us predict exactly how long the
rain would last, and exactly when it would arrive. Pretty neat...until
lightening took out the radar later that day while we were in Port Austin. You learn to respect
the elements and the ability of the laws of physics and a few sails to
harness the massive energy of the sea and winds to take you to places in days
that in a car would take just a few hours. But, then you’d never see
lake freighters lit up like a city at night, or navigate between islands by
radar, or find your way into an inlet at night by bouncing over a rock as big
as a house. Oh, well! It was a truly a memorable and "comfortable"
experience aboard our very roomy 41 foot ketch! |
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Stan and I find great
enjoyment, as well, in our "new" boat, Family Ties, which took us for 3 weeks this summer all around
Lake Huron. I experienced a moonrise, as we crossed the lake in the pitch
black of the night under a million stars (while Stan slept between his
watches). We docked at favorite ports we had sailed with the kids years ago on
vacations and dropped the hook in wilderness anchorages and sailed under the
Mackinac Bridge. We met old friends and made many new ones. You
didn’t think I would go up there did you? Pam was not only brave, but she got a great view of the $2
Million yacht that ran up on the rocks the night before. Some yahoo, in his
new boat, decided to take the short cut between the top of Michigan’s
thumb and the lighthouse 2 miles off shore marking the presence of rocks. In
the dead of night, at some ungodly speed, this wave skipping bravado
destroyed the bottom of his boat. He wasn’t going to sink in 4 feet of
water with rocks punching up through his hull, but he didn’t know that
at the time. So, the U.S. Coast Guard flew a helicopter up from Detroit and
pulled the two of ‘em off the boat. Pam’s
effort was valiant, but the direction from the bald guy on the ground
was useless. As best we could determine lightening knocked the antenna off
and into the water. There was no physical damage to the boat which was well
grounded. But none of the electronics worked except the depth sounder. |
Pam goes
"top side" to fix the radio antenna. Yep, that's her up there, while
Stan stands by, 8-9. |
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Finishing
TWO YEARS BEFORE THE MAST |
Throughout the rest of
the summer, back on the Detroit River and Lake St. Claire, we kept busy most
every weekend taking out family and friends for afternoon or evening sails.
We would love to bring you aboard and give you the experience of sailing,
share some good food and conversation. Please let us know if you would like
to join us next summer. After
reading TWO YEARS BEFORE THE MAST, nothing much on the Great Lakes was very
threatening. April found a 50 year old edition of the story at a yard sale
for 50 cents. |
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Until then, we wish you
all the love and peace and good will of this Blessed Season.
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